The Spectre of war seems to be with us always. It is truly impersonal. Historically male Ares, Marsin western culture, but often also female or as in Hindi as a dual-sexed god, as in It takes two to tango. In any event, in this dream the visage is female. My belief is that heshe can never be pacified, so the best path is simply to avoid himher - it. How to do that would take more than the 200 words allowed here.